The Sahara Desert of TTC
Seven years I’ve been fighting infertility – SEVEN. Fighting PCOS, going through miscarriages, it’s just one loss after another – the loss of one’s self, the loss of hope for a family, and the loss of my libido. I’m going to talk to you honestly, candidly, and frankly. I never write about sex, nor anything like that, so what I’m writing about is getting your life back, your sex drive back, and your marriage back. Besides my self-esteem, my marriage and my marriage bed have suffered the most. When your husband asks you if you’re even attracted to him anymore, you know something has got to give. After years and years of fertility drugs and treatments – I’ve dried up (go on and cringe – but don’t close this page, you know you can relate.)
I no longer feel attractive, I no longer have the want for sex. When you’re TTC’ing, sex becomes a chore. It’s not exciting anymore and you’re no longer doing it for the intimacy – you’re doing it for the creation of a life – and it gets painful. Imagine trying to be intimate with your partner and you just can’t, it hurts – because your river just isn’t flowing as it should. And dammit it should flow! Your river should floweth over with want and need of a connection – the connection with your partner. As a writer and a blogger, I receive tons of pitches of a day – many of which include sweater to hide your hand so you can discreetly please yourself, and others have been crotchless yoga pants – yea don’t ask. But when I read about the Nuelle™ Fiera® – I knew that it was a women’s health product I could stand behind.
Fiera Features and How it Helps
Let’s talk about why I can stand behind this product, and bring it to your attention. We’re already suffering from body issues and healthy issues, why should we suffer even more, especially when we’re seeking a connection with our spouses? We shouldn’t right? So here is how the Feira can help you reconnect with your own body, your spouse, and let your river floweth over.
- Proprietary dual-action technology utilizes gentle suction and multi-focal stimulation to enhance blood flow to the genital area.
- Small, fast-acting and hands-free, Fiera is typically worn for 5-15 minutes and then removed in preparation for sexual activity
- Features pattern and intensity settings for a customizable experience
- Made with comfortable, body-safe materials (phthalate free)
- Uses rechargeable batteries
- Drug and hormone-free (consumer device)
- Does not require a doctor’s visit or prescription
Can you imagine finally being able to enjoy sex again? I also want to point out that this device isn’t meant to bring you to climax. It’s meant to help you become aroused, to help kick start your libido. In fact 67% of women who have tried Fiera have seen an increase in lubrication. Here are some more numbers that may pique your interest:
- 87% of women felt “in the mood”
- 83% enjoyed engaging in sex
- 75% felt excited and ready for sex
These numbers came from a study conducted on women between the ages of 25-69. So if you fall somewhere between those numbers, you can benefit from Fiera!
How to Use Fiera
Try Fiera® at least 4 times within a month to feel the benefits*. Fiera® can be used for a few minutes in advance of sexual activity to accelerate physical arousal and interest in having a partnered sexual experience. Though response time will vary from woman to woman, Fiera should be used for five to fifteen minutes before sexual activity and removed when feeling ready to engage with your partner. Practice is key. It takes 2-3 times to get the hang of placing Fiera. It can be helpful to use a mirror the first time to understand where to place. There is a graphic animation video on Fiera.com that explains more. https://support.fiera.com/hc/en-us/articles/217164128-How-to-place-Fiera-on-your-body
Fiera isn’t meant to replace any other aids you may use, but it’s a great add-in to help get you started and ready to FINALLY ENJOY SEX AGAIN!
Don’t be afraid to try it, the worst that can happen is that you’ll find yourself actually loving again. You can save 10% when your purchase Fiera with promo code BABBLE. What more have you got to lose?